Sunday, September 1, 2013

Sharing your faith, through doors and windows

This speech was originally given at the Portsmouth United Methodist Church by me on April 22, 2011 as part of our church's Faith in Action series. I give a speech every month about practical ways you can share your faith with others. If you ever have a suggestion, please let me know in the comments!


I learned this week of the Pascal Greeting tradition. I wondered out loud to my husband when the tradition fell out of favor, if it indeed had.  I haven't heard of it and don't think anyone has ever greeted me with "He is risen!" to which I should have replied "Truly, He is risen!"  This greeting is a wonderful reminder of the joy that Jesus brings and personally, it makes my heart sing to say it.  He is risen, he is risen indeed!

Today I wanted to talk to you about doors, specifically opening doors.  The process of sharing your faith is a lot like learning to open doors.  When you start to open those doors, you start on a path that leads you and others around you, to God.  But even getting that door open can seem like a daunting task sometimes.  I'm not always good at opening doors.  I tend to stay in my own little room, oblivious to those around me, to their joy, their pain, their questions. 

A few years ago, I found myself in a situation I never thought I would be in: sitting in a courthouse, waiting for my divorce attorney to meet me.  It was not a high-point in my life.  My world had been disrupted in a way I couldn't imagine and yet, here I sat in this cold, hard building with a bunch of strangers bustling about all probably feeling the same thing.  Maybe it's my heightened sense of literary drama, but it always seems to me you can feel the pain in those places.  Courthouses usually mean nothing but pain and anger and distrust. There are so many emotions on display, right out there, raw and uncensored.  Being the closed-door kind of person I am, that makes it all the more uncomfortable to me.  But, there I sat, by myself, watching so many dramas unfold and feeling utterly alone.  I had brought a book to read, knowing that I would probably have some time to kill, but I couldn't read it.  Nerves, anxiety, whatever it was, I couldn't concentrate so I just sat there. Close by, there was a women sitting on a bench, intently staring at an index card.  Now, as I said before, I'm a closed-door person; I have a very hard time talking to strangers (I think my parents were probably a little too successful with that whole stranger-danger lesson), but something moved in me to speak to this woman. So, I asked her what was on her card.  I can't remember if she read it aloud or just handed it to me, but this is what it said "Are not five sparrows sold for just 2 pennies?  And yet, not one of them is forgotten or uncared for in the presence of God.  But the very hairs of your head are all numbered... Do not be struck with fear or seized with alarm; you are of greater worth than many flocks of sparrows.

That verse from Luke spoke to me.  In a time of my life where I felt alone, that I had made some terrible mistakes and had no worth in God's eyes, a stranger shared God's word with me, she shared her faith. She didn't know that some stranger was going to ask her about the card in her hand when she wrote it; she carried it for herself, for her own comfort.  But her faith came through on that card and in the end, she passed it onto me.  We talked for a while and I learned that she too, was in the middle of a terrible divorce.  She too was worried about the impact on her family, she too was worried about what people would think of her.  But that card, that verse from Luke, reminded her that we are never forgotten.  I never asked her name and I probably will never see her again in this life, but the gift of faith that she gave me that day won't ever leave me.  I cherish that card and it's message.


Sharing your faith is like opening a door.  And sometimes, a stranger will see that open door and walk through it.

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